For Massey and Paula Archibald, the founders of Teach Me About Property, Christmas is a special time at home. It’s a moment to relax, reflect, and enjoy each other’s company. In this blog, we’ll take you through how Christmas is done in their house and the traditions that make it meaningful for them.
A Time to Relax and Recharge
For the Archibalds, Christmas is about stepping back from the hustle and bustle of everyday life. Being a blended family, with a busy year behind them, they look forward to this time to unwind. The family’s preference is to get away during the holiday season, giving everyone a chance to relax and let go of their usual household duties. This downtime is especially cherished by Paula, who appreciates the break from everyday tasks.
Beach destinations are often the choice, where the family can enjoy good food, sun, and each other’s company. Whether it’s soaking up the sun or taking a dip in the water, the main goal is to recharge and simply be together.
Family Dynamics at Christmas
Like many families with grown-up children, Christmas gatherings become harder to coordinate. Jordan (34) and Daniel (32) have their own lives and are often doing their own thing over the festive season. This is something all parents can relate to—when kids grow up, they become more independent, and catching up over Christmas can be a challenge.
But for MJ (23) and Elijah (17), Christmas is still very much a family event. MJ, who is autistic, has always had a love for Lego, and this tradition continues each year. He usually receives one of the new Lego sets he’s been eyeing for a while, which brings him so much joy. Elijah, on the other hand, is quite content with very little. He’s the type of person who doesn’t need much to feel satisfied. One year, the family went to Toys “R” Us, and despite being given the freedom to choose anything he wanted, Elijah couldn’t find anything he really desired. It’s just in his nature to be happy with what he has.
Keeping It Simple with Gifts
In the Archibald household, Christmas gifts are kept simple. As the kids have grown up, their wants have become more modest. MJ and Elijah usually choose one thing they’d like for Christmas, and that’s what they receive. The family doesn’t go overboard with gifts, as they’ve learned to appreciate the simplicity of life. Unlike when the parents were growing up—where Christmas gifts were a huge deal—the kids today have most of their needs and wants met throughout the year. This shift in perspective has led to a more grounded approach to Christmas.
Skipping the Big Family Gatherings
The Archibalds tend to spend Christmas away, which means missing some of the larger family gatherings. However, they still make time for catch-ups either before their trip or once they return. While it’s nice to be part of the big family get-togethers, the family values their quiet time away during the festive season.
In the early new year, they reconnect with extended family and friends, ensuring they don’t miss out on important relationships while still taking time for themselves.
The True Meaning of Christmas
While the gifts and gatherings are part of the celebrations, the Archibalds never forget the true reason for the season: their faith. Christmas, for them, is about focusing on the birth of Jesus Christ, their Lord and Saviour. Giving thanks and sharing their blessings with others is at the heart of their celebration. As part of their tradition, they contribute to their local community and church, doing their part to help those in need.
Wrapping It Up
Christmas in the Archibald household is about relaxation, simplicity, and faith. The hustle of life takes a back seat, and the family gets to enjoy a slower pace, whether it’s by the beach or with their favourite food. They cherish this time together, focusing on what truly matters: family, faith, and giving.
