Spring is here, baby — blue skies, fresh mornings, and that Sydney sun warming up the day. And just like the change of seasons, sometimes you’ve got to pause and reflect on the story of where you’re at.

That’s exactly what we did in a recent TMAP group session. The focus was on Money Stories — those early experiences that shaped how we see, feel, and act around money today. And let me tell you, it hit deep.

Starting From the Bottom

Almost every student in that session had a common theme: humble beginnings and struggle.

  • Many shared about their first jobs — milk runs, paper routes, helping the family however they could.
  • Others remembered the moment they realised their family had less than others. One student still recalls the day he brought a simple towel to a mate’s birthday while everyone else unwrapped expensive gifts.
  • Another remembered being the cousin with Payless shoes at family gatherings while others wore Jordans and Nikes.

These stories are powerful. They remind us that while we can’t choose where we start, we can choose where we go.

How Parents Shape Our Money Habits

Another strong theme was the influence of parents’ relationship with money.

Some grew up in homes where money came in but never stayed — constant bills, contributions, and gifting meant the struggle never ended, no matter the income.

Others shared that their parents simply weren’t good with money management, even when earnings were decent. And whether we realise it or not, we carry those habits (or scars) into adulthood.

That’s why so many of our students come to TMAP with a burning desire: “This generational curse ends with me.”

Rewriting the Story

The point of reflecting on your money story isn’t to feel shame or regret — it’s to unlock understanding.

Why do you spend the way you do? Why do you fear saving? Why do you chase status symbols, or on the flip side, cling to every dollar? Your story holds the clues.

And here’s the truth: you can write a new chapter.

At TMAP, we see students flip their stories every day. From families who went from survival mode to thriving investors, to young people building habits that will set them up for life, the common thread is this: once you face your story, you can start to change it.

Your Move

If you haven’t been to a TMAP Group Session lately, it’s time to jump back in. These conversations aren’t just about property — they’re about building a stronger relationship with money, breaking old patterns, and creating new ones that last for generations.

👉 Connect to the community.
👉 Share your story.
👉 And start building the financial future your family deserves.

Because the truth is, money isn’t a one-night stand. It’s a lifelong partnership. And when you treat it with respect, it will take you all the way to the top of the mountain.